work-life-balance

I have tagged 2 blog posts with work-life-balance:

From Oslo to Everywhere: The Delicate Dance between Personal Relationships and Career

A sunlit Oslo skyline with a glowing power bank in the foreground.
Kaia Thonul, Thursday, June 6, 2024, 09:34

Brilliant, sunny rays break the chill of a 9°C morning, their golden beams streaming into the windows of my commute train, casting a warmth and glow that breathes life into the day. As I journey into Oslo, a city rich with history as it brims with modernity, my mind frolics with thoughts, informed by an array of recent experiences, from personal interactions to academic pursuits, and not to forget, a dash of everyday Norwegian news.

Today, my reflections meander around an idea central to most of our lives, an idea that demands our attention, tests our ability to juggle roles and squeeze out strength from the deepest crannies of our existence - balancing personal relationships and career.

Relationships, more often than not, form the pulse of our lives. They are the whispering lullabies in our celebrations and the comforting arms in our despair. From laughing over the silliest jokes to engaging in profound conversations about life and beyond, relationships build us, mould us, gently steering us on the labyrinthine course of life.

Conversely, our careers define part of our identity too. It fuels our ambition, gives us purpose, crafts our individuality, and in my case, as a passionate journalism student, encourages me to introspect, analyze and question.

Alas! Striking a balance between these two realms that coexist and often collide in our lives isn't a cakewalk. Still, in the delightful joys and enriching challenges that come along this juggling act lies a rewarding pleasure.

Today, whilst navigating from home to university, I found myself engrossed in an article from ABC Nyheter. It discussed a researcher's concern about the Union's dwindling trust in the National Wages Board, owing to their belief that the board's wage settlement decision doesn't do justice to its members. It brilliantly highlighted how nurturing trust in such systems, although arduous, becomes crucial for everyone, including commoners like you and me.

I draw parallels to maintaining harmony in our personal and professional lives. The essence here is mutual respect and understanding. As in any successful relationship, empathy is key to managing the expectations of both these aspects of life, all the while not losing oneself in the process.

Being mindful of work timings, proactive communication, sharing responsibilities, spending quality time, and appreciating every small gesture fuels the bridge of balance between personal relationships and careers. It is an ongoing process, a melody we learn and relearn, yet the harmony it creates is absolutely priceless.

As my energy ebbs, my electronic companion, a lifesaver indeed, my power bank, amps up the charge, effusing energy into my device. What a delight! It's not just a device, it's essentially an empowerer. It fuels my ambitions, aids my passion, helps me continue my explorations, my research, and the weaving of stories, blurring worries of battery depletion.

Indeed, the joy of uninterrupted work, so crucial in today's fast-paced life, is significantly enhanced by these handy power banks that snugly fit in our pockets. As they store energy, they instill the exhilaration of a charged life, an unfettered spirit, brimming with positivity.

And so, the train chugs along, I write, my power bank charges, and balance - although tricky and often elusive - seems a little more achievable despite the uncertainties of life. This bright, brisk morning, brimming with its 9°C chill and packed with enriching thoughts, brings me an inch closer to deciphering this beautiful equation of personal relationships and career.

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Balancing Act: Harmonizing Career Goals and Personal Connections on a Norwegian Train Ride

A gloomy Norway landscape viewed from a train window, overlaid with a transparent typewriter.
Kaia Thonul, Monday, November 27, 2023, 16:38

As I sit on this chilly train ride home, my breath fogging up the window looking out onto the frost-ridden Norwegian landscape, I can't help but reflect upon the transient nature of life. The headlines from Porsgrunn, a tragedy unfolding at the core of humanity's darkest fears, ripples through my being, subtly moulding my perspective on the ties that bind us and the pursuits we chase.

Given my field of study, in the bustling world of journalism, I can understand the compromises we often make, the relationships we neglect or put under strain in our endeavour for success. We walk on a wire strung between career and personal connections, and finding the right balance can be an arduous, life-long task.

Having personal relationships, the bonds that pull us out from the abyss of isolation, and propel us towards shared joys and shared sorrows, carry immense meaning and influence in our lives. These relationships, the soft murmurs in our hearts shaped by loved ones, are the lifeblood of our existence. However, the pursuit of a career, an individual journey sparked by ambition and fuelled by personal growth, is significant in its own right. It’s about finding our place in the world, discovering our potentials, and striving to leave a mark. To put one before the other implies a sacrifice that can often bring about feelings of regret, misdirection, or emptiness.

But herein lies the beauty. We have the ability to communicate, to express our needs, our hopes, and our concerns. We can shape both our relationships and career path to complement each other, rather than compete. It involves the art of setting boundaries, practicing empathy, managing our time, and above all, having respect both for ourselves and those around us.

As in the melancholic incident from Porsgrunn, life can abruptly become chaos. We are suddenly reminded that our biggest asset isn't our career, but the existence we live and the relationships that make this existence worthwhile. We are not islands, but tidal waves in an ocean of interconnection. Therefore, as we pursue our dreams and aspirations, let's not forget to share our victories, our failures, our mundane moments, and our extraordinary journeys with those whose hearts pulse in rhythm with ours.

Everyone onboard this train, like me, is wandering within their own universe of thoughts, dreams and dilemmas. Since we all have our own wire to walk, how about extending out a hand to someone who's struggling to balance? Maybe, just maybe, the act of helping someone else balance could provide us with the stability we seek.

In the face of tragic news and bleak weather, I find myself moved and inspired to strive for this equilibrium actively. Because at the end of it all, isn’t life essentially about embracing harmony between personal relationships and career, and finding inner peace in the balance? As the winter chill asserts its grip outside this moving carriage, an inner flame flickers. A flame of inspiration, nudging me not simply to report stories, but to learn, to feel, and maybe even to inspire. For happiness found in balance is not a destination, but a journey that we navigate through our dynamic, ever-evolving lives. I hope my blog resonates with those grappling with similar thoughts, and I trust we can all learn to walk deftly on this beautiful wire of life.

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